Self Control is a will that holds the stem virtue of fidelity.
When we have control over our minds, our bodies, and
our desires, we are ready for the next level. Merry Christmas,
Drive safe. Don't drink and drive, especially with kids in a car.
Friday, December 25, 2009
Genuine Thoughts of Ambition
When do you say, 'that's it? 
Self Control is a will that holds the stem virtue of fidelity.
When we have control over our minds, our bodies, and
our desires, we are ready for the next level. Merry Christmas,
Drive safe. Don't drink and drive, especially with kids in a car.
Self Control is a will that holds the stem virtue of fidelity.
When we have control over our minds, our bodies, and
our desires, we are ready for the next level. Merry Christmas,
Drive safe. Don't drink and drive, especially with kids in a car.
Sunday, December 06, 2009
Marriage, Relationships and Kids
Divorcing couples find themselves dispaired with antagonizing, mutual dissappointment and frustrated with the thought of who is going to take who
to the cleaners.
Children are usually involved in most divorce cases. When this happens, the
frustration grows in all directions.
First, kids are feeling guilty and disbelief. Children tend to blame themselves for all the problems. They may display bad mood, no cooperation and routine
tandrums. These are signs that your kid or kids are picking up from your energy.
Psychologist did studies on the reactions on divorces and the ways to
improve the atmosphere in the home.
According to Joy Rice, PH.D. of Living Through Divorce; the sooner
people in divorce exibit improvement in their decision and start accepting
the divorce from a positive point of view, the sooner the kids reflect on
their attitude and self-concept. They will demonstrate signs of acceptance
and the guilt will slowly lift away.
It is very important to understand that life isn't always perfect and relationships are definitely ever perfect. However, your self-esteem is a strong component of your life.
If your self-esteem is crushed, so will your kids self-comprehension.
In order to take the proper precautions on developing a better approach during
a divorce,
longivity and happiness while your still around.
Peace-One Love
to the cleaners.
Children are usually involved in most divorce cases. When this happens, the
frustration grows in all directions.
First, kids are feeling guilty and disbelief. Children tend to blame themselves for all the problems. They may display bad mood, no cooperation and routine
tandrums. These are signs that your kid or kids are picking up from your energy.
Psychologist did studies on the reactions on divorces and the ways to
improve the atmosphere in the home.
According to Joy Rice, PH.D. of Living Through Divorce; the sooner
people in divorce exibit improvement in their decision and start accepting
the divorce from a positive point of view, the sooner the kids reflect on
their attitude and self-concept. They will demonstrate signs of acceptance
and the guilt will slowly lift away.
It is very important to understand that life isn't always perfect and relationships are definitely ever perfect. However, your self-esteem is a strong component of your life.
If your self-esteem is crushed, so will your kids self-comprehension.
In order to take the proper precautions on developing a better approach during
a divorce,
- Seek therapy
- Build a support system
- Demonstrate strength by allowing yourself to mourn through the change
- Find quality time for yourself
- Stay away from artificial substance that can alter your progress
- Show your kids that you'll get through it together, do not isolate for long period of time
- Exercise
- Find something you never had time to accomplish and think of diving into it
- Be good to yourself
- Replacing your past relationship out of rebound tends to be unhealthy
- Re-evaluate your needs and wants before diving into another pool of emotions
longivity and happiness while your still around.
Peace-One Love
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