Divorcing couples find themselves dispaired with antagonizing, mutual dissappointment and frustrated with the thought of who is going to take who to the cleaners. Children are usually involved in most divorce cases. When this happens, the frustration grows in all directions. First, kids are feeling guilty and disbelief. Children tend to blame themselves for all the problems. They may display bad mood, no cooperation and routine tandrums. These are signs that your kid or kids are picking up from your energy. Psychologist did studies on the reactions on divorces and the ways to improve the atmosphere in the home. According to Joy Rice, PH.D. of Living Through Divorce; the sooner people in divorce exibit improvement in their decision and start accepting the divorce from a positive point of view, the sooner the kids reflect on their attitude and self-concept. They will demonstrate signs of acceptance and the guilt will slowly lift away. ...
