Divorcing couples find themselves dispaired  with antagonizing, mutual dissappointment and frustrated with the thought of who is going to take who  to the cleaners.  Children are usually involved in most divorce cases.  When this happens, the  frustration grows in all directions.   First,  kids are feeling guilty and disbelief. Children tend to blame themselves for all the problems.  They may display bad mood, no cooperation and routine  tandrums. These are signs that your kid or kids are picking up  from your energy.  Psychologist did studies on the reactions on divorces and the ways to  improve the atmosphere in the home.   According to  Joy Rice, PH.D. of Living Through Divorce; the sooner  people in divorce exibit improvement in their decision and start accepting  the divorce from a positive point of view, the sooner the kids reflect on  their attitude and self-concept. They will demonstrate signs of acceptance  and the guilt  will slowly lift away.  ...